If you are a parent, the end of summer signals back to school. A new school year can be quite stressful, especially if you are separated or divorced.  So how can co-parents make the back to school transition easier for their kids?

• Set up systems and routines
• Lay out expectations for every member of the family, and
• Establish a sense of predictability.

Experts agree that the best way co-parents can make back to school easier for their kids is to establish a schedule and share a common calendar. 

Apps like Talking Parents and Our Family Wizard are a good way of maintaining regular communication. Whether you use an App or not, it is important to establish guidelines for communication such as:

• how often,
• who will initiate, and
• will it be by email, video conference, or phone.

In order to avoid frustration, make sure the school knows to communicate with both of you. Also, review your emergency contact list and make sure it is up to date. 

Google Calendar, Our Family Wizard and other Apps make creating a shared calendar easy. Create a calendar specifically for the kids’ school and extracurricular activities so both of you know where to be and when. A shared calendar not only allows you to keep track of activities but it also provides your kids with a sense of stability. 

Another great tip is to make sure you review the official school calendar for the entire year with your former spouse and plan for days off, early dismissals and who will be responsible for sick kids and other unexpected issues.  

Unsure about how to approach your former spouse about these  issues?  Do your well intended suggestions end in a heated debate or argument? Having trouble communicating in an effective and peaceful manner? Contact me to schedule a complimentary 30 minute consultation to determine if divorce coaching is right for you.

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What back to school tips do you have that might help other parents? Comment below.